Yifat vanunu Lupo
organizational consultant
972-50-3565313 | 2talk.oc@gmail.com
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The 2talk in the family cards We developed after the success of 2talk kits for managing organizational relationships. We discovered that, like us, the 2talk kits users community also enjoys using the kits not only at work, but also at home, with the children and the extended family.
So we sat down with the children as well as their friends, and asked them to take part in formulating the questions. We wanted to know what they wish to be asked at home, and we got beautiful and exciting ideas.
You will meet those ideas here in the 2talk in the family kit, along with additional questions.
we wish you meaningful conversations in the family.
Because there is nothing like a family, and you need to nurture the bonds in the family (and in general).
The Lupo family
Users guide - 2talk in the family
What's in the 2talk family kit? (*** Currently available only in Hebrew)
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60 cards, divided into 6 categories (let's get in touch, remember that...?, father is ashamed, here we dream, talk about feelings, selfie).
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In each category 9-14 question cards, in different degrees of depth.
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"Joker" card with which you can ask any question that comes to your mind.
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User manual.
how to use?
Actually - as you wish.
Still here are some options:
One option:
All the cards are spread out in a shuffle on the table, face down (that is, you don't see the question). Each one in turn picks up a card and answers the question listed in it. You can continue the activity until you finish all the cards, or after a predetermined period of time. Hint* According to the color and the number of children appearing in the illustration, you can tell what the subject is and the degree of depth in the card.
second option:
All the cards are placed on the table, with the questions visible. Everyone chooses a card with a question they want to answer. Then each person in turn answers the question on the card. The rest of the family members are invited to go deeper and take an interest in what was said.
Third option:
Each person in turn chooses a card with a question for another family member, hands him the card and lets him answer. It is important! Make sure that everyone in the family gets a card.
And now, all that's left is to get in touch, according to your preferences:
Some general things you should know:
1. Each card is a trigger for conversation. It is always possible and worthwhile to go deeper with follow-up questions, to be interested in the answer given. Questions that can help are: What did you mean? Can you say more? Can you give an example?
2. The activity is suitable for any family, whatever it is: nuclear, extended, complex, single-parent, same-sex, round B and more.
3. The activity is also suitable for several families who participate together.
4. On each card there are two symbols: a color, which represents the category (get in touch, remember that...?, embarrassment,
, here we dream, talk about feelings, selfie) and an illustration of a child. The number of children in the figure represents the level of depth of the question. 1 child - light questions, 2 children - more significant questions, 3 children - deep questions.
5. You can, according to your preference (and perhaps according to the family composition in which you participate) filter and sort the cards you want to use in the activity: to choose some of the categories, or some of the levels of depth of the conversation. This, according to the topics that interest you and according to the depth of the dialogue you want to generate in the activity
6. Some of the questions are aimed at a family member's statement about himself (such as: What are you proud of yourself?), some of them to another family member (such as: Who in the family do you want to ask forgiveness for?) and some for the whole family (what we used to do and it's a shame we don't do it anymore?).
7. The activity is suitable for family members aged 6-120, but it is possible and desirable to involve the little ones as well, with the proper mediation.
8. If there is a question or questions that for some reason does not suit you as a family –It's OK. Just take them out before starting.